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Cut contact with my religious "friend" (feddit.org)

submitted 18 hours ago by SchwarzeHexe@feddit.org to c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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She was never happy with the way I was, just with how she wanted me to be. She liked the idea of me, not me. She got weirded out at me for liking girls and being born one, she tried to get me to apologize to God, become His servant, and "convert" and keeps asking me to read the Bible and form a relationship with a being I don't believe exists. She also she found out I was genderfluid. This was the last straw for me. She asked why my pronouns were "she AND he". I said I'm genderfluid. She asked if God made a mistake with my gender, and then said no because God never makes mistakes and I should just be a straight Christian girl forever. Is this toxicity disguised as "love" or am I overreacting?

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[–] SchwarzeHexe@feddit.org 3 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

She was like "Well, God doesn't make mistakes, does he? Hmm? Hmm?"

[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 10 minutes ago* (last edited 8 minutes ago)

"Then why do we need to be 'Born Again,' hmm? And circumcisions? If God made you perfect, Some Assembly Required seems strange, hmm? Hmm?!?"

Or, if you're feeling particularly snarky: "apparently, he does, as I'm speaking to one right now."

E: grammar

[–] forrgott@lemmy.zip 2 points 15 hours ago

Exactly. Bullying takes plenty of different forms. In my own life, I know of a little old lady that bullies people in a very similar way, and always falls back on the line, "I'm just trying to help!" And bullying is the mark of a coward.