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I hate this sentiment... (thelemmy.club)

submitted 10 hours ago by may_be@thelemmy.club to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Hey, bigender gay/omni person here, I remember being a girl and talking to this one girl. I had a crush on her but she ended the friendship saying she didn't like me and we wouldn't get along, and maybe that was for the best...

Anyway, one thing she said stuck with me. Well I get being lesbian and only liking cis women, not trans women, but the way she said it kinda irked me... am I overreacting?

"I want to date a GIRL. A REAL girl not a boy who wants to be a girl and turned into one!"

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[–] Acrobaticmushroom@lemmings.world 7 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I don't think you're overreacting. Everyone is entitled to their own tastes and it's fine to be more attracted to cisgender people, but the way that is phrased she has much bigger issues with trans people than just wanting to date one or not.

[–] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 hour ago

Oh, everyone's entitled to their own tastes. So if I say I only date subby Asians you wouldn't be creeped out?

Yeah people like different things, that doesn't mean desire is never driven by fucked up shit.