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[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 13 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

My teen observed ….. guys are more likely to appreciate edgy, crude or offensive humor. Guys are more likely to be entertained by those assholes, even if they don’t agree with their message

[–] ComradePorkRoll@lemmy.world 21 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Most queer folks have a darker, edgier, more offensive sense of humor than the average right-winger and they tend to skew left so I don't think it's the humor that's winning them over.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 6 points 7 hours ago

I guess that's true, but you'd also have to qualify that as being self-deprecating humor that's clearly tongue-in-cheek, as opposed to straight-up hateful messages being passed off as humor. Like, "What up, f-slur", "That was homophobic" for whenever something doesn't go their way, and "Gays don't deserve rights" for whatever silly thing they pretend to dislike. It's all very self-aware and actually funny. The quality is on another level.

[–] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 14 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

I think they mean dark humour as in "scream a racial slur as loud as possible and call it a joke."

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 14 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Reminds me of a time I was at a party and this dude is like "hey I've got this super funny song, wanna hear it?" Then after folks agree to hear it he thinks for a second "also it kinda has some bad words, is that okay? You're not gonna get offended?" Then plays a song that just has a bunch of racial slurs for shock value and nothing funny or redeeming about it. I don't think a single person laughed and I hope it was as awkward for him as it seemed like it could've been

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 5 points 8 hours ago

its all punching down, they just dont understand the nuances

[–] ComradePorkRoll@lemmy.world 7 points 17 hours ago

I guess what I'm getting at is we shouldn't let them get away with claiming that they like humor when they clearly just like bigotry. Humor takes nuance.