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Question re: speed of HRT (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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So far HRT is going very well, I'm generally much happier.

tho I'm wondering a few things for my femmaxxing :3

How do I train 'curves'? What's the best routine? I know getting weight in the first few months may help, but what about exercise? Do these help with getting more 'meat' on my butt, hips, and breasts? If so, what kind of exercises should I do?
What kind of food to eat would help best?
Is a growth from 75B to 80C in 7 months slow or quick?
Any things I could do to appear more fem? I already wear high-waisted jeans, and I wear a bra. I prefer a generally 'neutral' ish fashion (neither very skirty nor motorjacketty), kinda tomboyish, though I'm fine with other options also.
I take a more femme walk (the hrt unironically helps me with that) nowadays as well. Behaviour ideas, maybe?
fill in whatever tips, i'm happy to answer questions!

and also, shork obligatory haj

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[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

HRT (and transition) is a marathon, not a sprint. The biggest changes will happen in the first two years, but you will still see changes 5 years in and even beyond that. External factors will also cause a lot of changes during that time.

For fashion, you mentioned high waist, that definitely helps. Anything that creates curves helps. I like dresses and coats that have a waist cinch.

As long as you're comfortable, you're doing well and don't need to fret about the little details.

Signed, 11+ years here

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

but I wanna speedrun this, i'm already like 28 yo :<

jokes aside, you're right, it's a marathon, not a sprint. and.. 11 years in, respect.

a waist cinch is certainly a great idea!

[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

Yeah I'm 48 and a year in to HRT and feel that desire to hurry up before I get droopy...LOL. Originally I didn't want breast augmentation or surgical body sculpting, but I just want clothes to fit right so, so badly.