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[–] philophilsaurus@sh.itjust.works 30 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I feel like the context of whether it’s consensual or not is the real factor there. BUT a lot of the edgier kinks can become even more dangerous since people are uncomfortable talking/asking questions, so maybe it’s more complicated.

[–] CTDummy@aussie.zone 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Oh yeah for sure, that stat is undoubtedly in the context of argument/non-consent; not a consensual kink dynamic. I wondered if it’s because they don’t want to normalise it due to worrying about it carrying over to circumstances outside consensual sex dynamics. Like an abuser trying to argue it being in a BDSM dynamic when it’s actually an abusive one.

[–] JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Way too many people try things they see in porn without doing proper research practice or consents. 50 shades of grey was a terrible time for the bdsm community

[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com 10 points 2 weeks ago

Those books were rape-manuals

When I was single, the second a woman would say "oh, you're like a real-life Christian Grey" I would know immediately that we weren't compatible

[–] Skua@kbin.earth 15 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Research shows strangulation is never a safe practice, despite a widespread belief it can be performed safely. Though it often leaves no visible injury, oxygen deprivation, even for very short moments, causes changes to the fragile structures of the brain.

Multiple studies have specifically shown brain changes in women who have been repeatedly “choked” during sex, including markers for brain damage and disruptions in brain hemispheres linked to depression and anxiety.

To be honest that actually seems like reason enough even if it is genuinely consensual

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Though it often leaves no visible injury, oxygen deprivation, even for very short moments, causes changes to the fragile structures of the brain.

Does this also apply to holding your breath?

[–] smoker@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Strangulation (done (in)correctly) can cut off the blood flow to the brain, which halts oxygen delivery to the tissues. Holding your breath just causes oxygen delivery to the blood to stop. Your body has enough blood and oxygen in it to last for a few minutes without breathing, but only as long as it is circulating to the tissues that require it.

While holding your breath, the ratio of carbon dioxide to oxygen will steadily increase, which will eventually trigger some chemoreceptors and force a reflexive diaphragmatic contraction.

[–] CTDummy@aussie.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago

Good to know, thanks for posting!

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

If someone dies you're very unlikely that you're getting away with it even if you have firm evidence of consent such as it occurring in a freak accident at a well monitored event. At least that's what the kink educators I've heard from have all said.