There exists a type of person that, when asked a question, will immediately respond with "Huh?" and then answer quickly after. I am one of those persons. A lot of people with ADHD have this quirk because it's like our brain is "loading" the new request and we're snapping into things.

The first part of the post is someone calling those types of people psychopaths because they don't get it. The second part of the post is someone more or less explaining what I did but in a way shorter fashion and without the context.

[–] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 14 points 1 month ago (4 children)

pro tip! just let the other person repeat themselves even though you already have your answer loaded. this gives you some advantages:

avoid answering what you think they asked the first time and answer what they're actually asking
opportunity to re-evaluate your answer as they repeat the question and make sure you still like it
after they repeat the question you already have an answer ready to go which makes you seem like you've got a high degree of expertise in the field even though it's just that you heard them the first time but were still processing

[–] curbstickle@anarchist.nexus 7 points 1 month ago

I tried this a while ago, unfortunately I would go off into something else in my head again and completely lose track of the answer I had at the ready.

So what I started doing to avoid that (but still hit points 1 & 2) is ask what I thought was the question back at them (in short form).

That seems to work well for me, maybe it will for others.

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