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Not to justify littering in the slightest (it's gross and I don't do it) but I think I can give you an insight in some of the thinking. Because in my own home, I frequently and unthinkingly 'litter' even though it annoys me! I open an envelope and read the letter, unconsciously dropping the envelope on the floor. I constantly find empty food packaging in weird places because as soon as I'm done with it I just drop it.
Fortunately I don't do this in public because I'm always more aware of my actions when I'm out of my own space. But within my home, if I'm doing something while focusing on something else I'm prone to abandoning things carelessly, and when I find them latter I'll be mad at having to tidy up after myself. So, maybe some folks are like that in public? Also, some folks consciously and shamelessly litter, and there's really no excuse.
So..... Do a lot of people do this? I can't imagine just letting things drop willy nilly that I am handling. I place the envelop on a table and after reading will either dispose of it all, put the letter back in the envelope and place it somewhere specific, put the letter somewhere specific and dispose of the envelope.
I don't think it's very common, partners and flatmates have definitely (and understandably) been frustrated. When I was younger and used to smoke, my friends would be horrified that I wouldn't tap ash into the an ashtray, but just into the floor or couch I was sitting on. It wasn't intentional, I don't like getting ash over myself (or having to pick up envelopes, or find socks scattered over the house) but if I was occupied by a conversation or even just thinking about something, it would happen without my noticing.
But to be fair, I have adhd, so I've got a bunch of issues around attention and impulse control. It's a tiresome habit, and I'm definitely not condoning it. I'm just so glad that I don't act like that outside my home. There I'm just normal levels of thoughtless, like forgetting to use coasters.