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Okay, I have been thinking more about thjs:
There is a final rule aka a fourth rule or celestial/godly rule - have 2 way communication with diety regarding the judgements you make and adjust to align to the diety. This normally will look like the platinum rule but has the capacity to incorporate much much more. The standard caution is "by their fruits, ye shall know them" so if the deity of your choice seems to say "go kill a political leader in the dead of night" then you should really look hard at both the laws of persecution and that you are not being deceived in any way.
The best way to grow in any of these is to keep a journal.
Humans have a hard limit on the number of people they know at between 250 and 1000, so beyond that, because humans don't empathize with math, we simply don't empathize. The outgroup then gets the short stick in negotiations. Politicians and large businesses seem to be a case in point across the board as termed "enshitiffication".
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