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my boyfriend plays video games every chance he gets (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 1 day ago by classybattery@sh.itjust.works to c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world
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now, i don't know if it's such a big deal, i'm (a trans man) just getting it "off my chest" (that's why i posted here). i love my boyfriend, but sometimes i wish he talked more to me. i understand, though. he's been struggling with mental health, but even when he says he's happy, he barely has any time for me because he's playing video games. he didn't even want to put the game down to say hi to me or text me because he thought it was annoying to do so, so i told him i'd let him play the game. i understand he plays games when he's bored or to cope with his life and depression, but he barely talks to me because that's how much he loves video games. we talk a few times per day and he says stuff like that"hi, i love you" "you're so handsome" but other than that, not really anything.

please be respectful, i don't need a rant on how much i suck as a bf, i'm really trying to figure out what to do to help.

i reposted this to mental health because it's kind of about his mental health struggles.

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[–] Damaskox@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I'll just hope that they won't drain yer resources through themselves being in a bad situation.
That you get them to seek aid and relief through that.

Do you know the reasons that led to depression?

[–] classybattery@sh.itjust.works 1 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

thank you, he's being more affectionate and kind towards me. he has trauma and has been abused.

[–] Damaskox@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Those things definitely make things harder.