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Data privacy is all the rage and people want to have an internet where companies need permission to sell your data and where you can use the FREE service without letting them tell advertisers what you actually like.

There are only 2 possible models for the internet

  1. A free internet where websites, browsers and search engines make money by selling your data to companies who want to sell their products to users.

  2. A subscription based internet where you companies don't use your data but charge a fee to use a specific website, browser or search engine.

I can guarantee that all these people complaining about "muh privacy" would not like having a paywall restricted internet.

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[–] BluescreenOfDeath@lemmy.world 17 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

I can guarantee that all these people complaining about "muh privacy" would not like having a paywall restricted internet.

As one of the privacy zealots on the internet, I'd gladly pay for services if it avoids advertisements. But I should get a choice in who gets my information.

As things are now, I'm not in control of any of it unless I fight tooth and nail to retain it, and even then I can only limit what they have access to. Facebook tracks my browsing habits and builds an advertisement profile based on it even though I explicitly deleted my accounts almost 10 years ago.

And this information isn't just kept by Facebook. They have the right to sell it to anyone, including the government. Who needs a warrant when your local PD can just pay a data broker and get access to your GPS logs? After all, you consented to that website's EULA that said they can sell that data to any other entity.

People who don't care about data privacy don't understand how much you can learn about someone just from 'anonymized metadata'.

If it was a person wanting to know that much about you, you'd call the cops for stalking. But because it's a multimillion dollar company with a profit motive, it's suddenly okay?

[–] lmmarsano@lemmynsfw.com -4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

But I should get a choice in who gets my information.

That choice is called not using their service.

After all, you consented to that website’s EULA that said they can sell that data to any other entity.

Exactly.

People who don’t care about data privacy don’t understand how much you can learn about someone just from ‘anonymized metadata’.

Some of us know.

[–] BluescreenOfDeath@lemmy.world 6 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)
[–] lmmarsano@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

Indirect information is not a choice we have offline, either.

So shadow profiles come from either

  • public information (not private by definition)
  • information other users shared
  • information 3rd parties got from each other or the former?

Seems like the problem here is information voluntarily given to someone & shared, ie, 2nd-hand information. Unless the information is sensitive (government ID, payment information, medical records, etc), can we reasonably expect society not to pick up information about us from our social network?

We can choose not to directly divulge our information, but even offline we never had serious expectations that others won't disclose nonsensitive information they know about us or seen us do. Unless the information is legally protected offline, we never had a choice to control that offline, so we're not owed that online, either.

[–] BluescreenOfDeath@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

That raises a fundamental question to me:

Are companies required to get permission to get data from people?

Because currently, they sure seem to think they need permission, except when it suits the company's interests (IE gathering data from people who explicitly reject their services and choose not to use them).

And while I understand that not everything is private, we have laws against gathering public data about people but only if you're just one person. Stalking is a crime, unless you're Facebook apparently.

[–] lmmarsano@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 8 hours ago

And while I understand that not everything is private, we have laws against gathering public data about people but only if you're just one person.

That's not why. The reason is nothing you wrote about fits the legal definition of stalking. A typical legal definition

A person commits the crime of stalking when the person either:

  • engages in a course of conduct or repeatedly commits acts toward another person, including following the person without proper authority, under circumstances which demonstrate either an intent to place such other person in reasonable fear of bodily injury or to cause substantial emotional distress to such other person; or
  • engages in a course of conduct or repeatedly communicates to another person under circumstances which demonstrate or communicate either an intent to place such other person in reasonable fear of bodily injury or to cause substantial emotional distress to such other person.

An element of the definition (circumstance) is sorely missing in your claims.

Stalking has less to do with information & more to do with (legal definition of) harassment. Simply gathering public data about someone isn't a crime. Expectations of privacy in public are nonexistent. Your premise is dubious.