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i can't sit with my thoughts alone (lemm.ee)
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I'm in constant fear of being deported.

I've helped my American wife get her medical degree, worked from home, looked after kids and house, and then when she graduated she got a job in the States

as soon as we moved she refused to apply for my greencard and kicked me out.

I'm 100% illegal and undocumented, and if I leave I'll never see my children again. I'm not allowed to work, I'm being my family for money to survive, no access to anything.

being alone with my thoughts is a nightmare. because I'm constantly afraid. she's taking advantage of this by constantly violation the divorce agreement she signed she doesn't let me call the kids when i should. she doesn't tell me of their medical appointments which I have to pay.

still better than living with her, but fuck.

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[–] BeckylandOfficial@kbin.earth 3 points 1 day ago

Your wife sounds horrible, I’m sorry to say that. Also, I’m so sorry about that. ICE and the deportation people shouldn’t exist, it’s truly heartbreaking.