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should i do limb lengthening surgery? (lemmy.world)

submitted 8 months ago by niceguy@lemmy.world to c/dating@lemmy.world

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im 157cm (5′2) 26yo male i have been in a realationship for 3years and i did had success somewhat with girls. tho sometime I feel like i need to work very hard, harder than my tall friends. if im not on my top shape and lean i feel like im not enough, and given less chances with girls. im pretty muscular, and have an ok face, i also pretty nice to talk to and tbh i never had a first date which the girl didnt want to go to a second date with me. but the height a lot of times made some girls not even consider me, and tbh 157 cm is like shorter than 99% of guys. im thinking about doing it to get to 5′6 tho i also dont wanna be the guy who is known for doing limb lengthning surgery cause its like an insecure thing. im pretty lost tbh. need some outsiders perspective ty

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[–] SL3wvmnas@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 8 months ago

Don't worry about downvotes there is some nascent brigading going on. if you are not an admin you can check a site like this, votes are public. what I'm seeing is old accounts -2 years in your case- that only vote and never post and weird accounts who either delete their posts after a few days or have weird posts still up. lemmy has some vocal fascist weirdos with their little bot armies. Chances are they will be following you around for a while like typical reply-guys. The admins of the better instances do a very good job of keeping them out, but they cant be everywhere all at once.