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The grieving parents of a 7-year-old child who died hours after being hit by a car were charged with involuntary manslaughter after allowing him and his brother, 10, to walk home unaccompanied by an adult from a nearby grocery store.

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[–] A_norny_mousse@feddit.org 36 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 38 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

No, they're joking. There's no federal law governing it afaik- only state laws that vary wildly. Child development experts mostly agree that under 8yo is too young to be unaccompanied

Edit: NC doesn't have a minimum, and the 7yo was with a 10yo, so it sounds like they have pretty much no case

[–] Joeffect@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The article says they were with an adult who was from the grocery store ... So they were with an adult... Just not the parents... Unless I'm reading it wrong... I don't even see anyone else mentioning this

[–] 5too@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

They left their mom at home, and were walking two blocks up the street to meet up with their dad, who was grocery shopping. The dad was on the phone with the older kid at the time, keeping tabs on them while letting them gain confidence going on their own.

As a parent who struggles not to helicopter my kids, none of this sounds out of line to me. The driver who apparently couldn't react to a kid stepping out unexpectedly, in what sounds like a residential area? I want to know why he's got a license.

[–] ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 17 hours ago

Kind of residential. It was a 4 lane road they were crossing.

[–] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

We have many places where phone distracted drivers have made it too dangerous for any aged person to walk or ride a bike.

But it’s hyperbole. Kids in cities can get around alone just fine. And my 7 y/o goes to friends houses across a street and the through backyards. We have no sidewalks and fast cars though. So he is extra careful crossing. To the point that he’s basically a crossing guard when we walk together.

It sucks though because there’s nowhere to safely learn to ride a bike that isn’t driving distance from our house.

[–] technocrit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

But it’s hyperbole. Kids in cities can get around alone just fine. And my 7 y/o goes to friends houses across a street and the through backyards.

It it really hyperbole though? Kids in the city are generally murdered by cars more than anything else. And if you have to cut through backyards to avoid death, that's not really an optimal situation there. Personally I don't care about trespassing at all, but people could literally shoot kids for this in shithole USA.

https://mccunewright.com/blog/2017/03/traffic-collisions-leading-cause-of-death-for-children-in-los-angeles/