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[–] darkdemize@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Seeing shit like this makes me ever so thankful to be married and not having to do the online dating bullshit to find someone who can tolerate me.

[–] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

You're lucky. Online dating is completely useless. Tried it for a year and never even had a single date out of it. It can work (one of my best friend met his GF this way), but for the majority its just straight up a time waste. Spending an hour every day swiping on the app just for it to not get me anywhere near a relationship. Also the chats I had with others usually ended up with me having to pull everything out of the others nose. If I wouldn't had written anything the chat would have died in records speed. This is also quite frustrating.

This is why I just gave up on it. If I meet someone in real life that's turning into a relationship, its nice but if not I'm fine living alone.

[–] darkdemize@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

I agree 100%! Sorry it's been a shitshow for you. I tried it for a few months before meeting my wife in person about 10 years ago. I also had zero dates and a small handful of unproductive conversations. Best advice I can offer is to find a hobby that allows you to interact with others who have similar interests as you.