SOme background history: 26 years old today, when I was younger I use to watch some Yuri/lesbian content and I use to sometimes imagine as if I were the opposite gender.
Today: I found that I might be nonbinary but never made a post about it anywhere on the internet before due to worried of facing judgement. lemmy.blahaj.zone I think has proven itself to be a safe community to post about this. Today I am opening up about talking about it. idk what the response would be. Today i'm now identifying as she/her, and experimenting with nonbinary identity.
finding your identity is a jurney. i hope you found the best fitting lavel fpr you here, but even if you decide later on that nb isnt it, thats fine too :) i myself identified as multiple genders before before landing on nb/agender now where i am quite happy. but it was the experimentation with masc and fem stuff that lead me there.
Anyway congratz to your character development :D