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[–] shawn1122@lemm.ee 58 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

In the US, federal law allows women 3 months off after childbirth, after which infants are shipped to daycare.

This is unpaid leave that allows you to keep your benefits. Some states augment that with pay and some "benevolent" corporations will offer more pay or time.

State supported paternity leave does not exist.

Research shows that isolating men from children leads to poor modulation of testosterone resulting in more aggression and less empathy.

Research also shows that lack of mother child bonding in early development creates men like JD Vance.

Policy shapes biology which shapes culture which shapes policy. A vicious cycle that can only be broken once recognized.

[–] couch1potato@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 10 months ago (2 children)

California has PFL (paid family leave) which also applies to fathers. I don't know if there are more states with similar programs, but CA at least covers a lot of people.

[–] QuarterSwede@lemmy.world 9 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Colorado has 12 weeks paid to both. But, once again someone doesn’t understand state sovereignty in the US and just clumps a together as one unit. 🤦🏼‍♂️

[–] pdxfed@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Oregon has bonding time for fathers as well and paid family leave, actually the most generous pay rates and broadest application in the US. 100% of pay up to ~$60k indexed to inflationary measure and benefits tapers down for higher earners.

[–] _stranger_@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I'm going to give thread op the benefit of the doubt and assume "state supported" was supposed to mean "federally supported".

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Policy shapes biology which shapes culture which shapes policy. A vicious cycle that we can only break once we recognize it.

It's even more difficult when you have people who are purposely exploiting that cycle for nefarious reasons.