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So an intersex person might one day discover that their gender doesn’t reflect their sex, but their sex has never actually changed, right? Or if someone were to receive full and adequately administered treatment for their gender dysphoria, their sex wouldn’t change? Just trying to completely peg down any edge cases.
To be clear, humans should be allowed to live comfortably in their own skin. Not jaqing off, just trying to become fully informed.
An intersex person is typically assigned a gender at birth, but so is everyone else. Being intersex just means you aren't biologically male or female (though I think this might also include people who have sex chromosomes that develop as though they were the other binary sex, but I'm not an expert). Most intersex people don't typically know they are intersex, and thus they would count as cisgender so long as they identify as the gender they were assigned at birth and transgender if they do not. Thus, if someone had, say XY chromosomes, but was assigned female at birth, they would probably be cis if they identified as female.
However, trans can be a bit of a self-identifying label, and thus someone in that situation might just as well consider themselves trans. There's a lot of different definitions for trans. Many non-binary people would consider themselves trans since they don't identify as their assigned gender at birth.
Long story short, gender is complicated. Sex doesn't change (put a couple asterisks here), but gender is super flexible (also asterisks here.)
Well intersex could be either, both or none. Some are born with something that looks like a vagina and has balls inside of them so they think they are biologically a woman until they try to have kids and it isn't possible or are together with someone who knows what a vagina "should" look like or it looks kind of like a penis but everyone is a bit unsure. It is a big grey zone, I don't know if you can even call them biologically anything, if biologically means having one type of genitals. I am not sure if bilogical means anything either way (for intersex). It depends what you want to actually know, if you want kids then no, no biologically kids. But that could be true for someone who is what you would call biologically man or woman any ways.
So yeah one day they may discover they can't have kids or that they also have balls inside of them, or they have no balls or they have a mix of both or none. Before (and still in some countries) did the parents pick a gender and then a lot of surgery happened to make it look like a typical penis or vagina.
But it is an interesting topic, what is even sex? What do you wish to actually know? Because if it is about kids then sex doesn't matter instead it would be better to just ask "can you produce x" ( depending on what you produce). Not everyone who is "biologically" can produce what you need anyways. I know many who needed to get a sperm or egg donator (or both) to have kids.
The definition of sex, and where it bleeds into gender or doesn’t. I felt like I had a complete understanding of the difference between sex and gender, but there were a few months, a while back, where the terms were used interchangeably and I began to subtly question whether I actually understood them.
Now, several months later, I thought to ask in a relatively neutral space. You guys confirmed that I just happened to see many people misusing words for a bit, which I appreciate.
People play real fast and loose with these terms.
My advice is to do what you're doing here, which is learn... But to remember to meet people where they're at.
By these definitions, with sex relating to biological things, you might be tempted to tell someone they can't just "decide" their sex, by this definition. Don't do it.
Not saying you would, but resist the urge to get into a semantic argument. Just ask the specific people what they mean by these words when they say them, and roll with it. Prioritize understanding over being understood.
This advice goes for anything, but this is a particularly spicy meatball.
This is excellent advice that I wish I could immediately incorporate into my being. You’ve described alchemy, as far as my technical but inarticulate ass goes. I hope to be able to do this in person some day.