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Hey folks, I’m a freelance voice-over artist and QA reviewer working on training content, usually things like workplace harassment and diversity courses. Recently, I was asked to QA a course on workplace harassment—and noticed the client had removed all references to gender, replacing it with sex. Anywhere the word “gender” appeared, it was just… gone or replaced.

It seems like a subtle thing on the surface, but it’s not. It completely shifts the tone and scope of the training. It feels like a quiet rollback of DEI principles, and honestly, it made my stomach turn. The kicker? I need this job. Turning this down could burn a bridge I can’t afford to lose.

I have a good relationship with the lead on the project (who's just relaying instructions—they don’t have control over the content decisions), and I want to say something. At the same time, I’m scared that even a polite pushback could cost me.

Has anyone else been in this kind of situation? How do you draw the line when your ethics and survival are at odds? Would really appreciate your thoughts.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

You and I don't own this system, we have to survive in it. You aren't actively hurting anyone. Do it, get the paycheck that keeps a roof over your head, then find some way to make a positive impact in your local community. Is there a place with resources for LGBT youth/young adults that you could volunteer at or donate to?

My take on it, at least. I'm not helping anyone if I get evicted. The employer is the one showing a lack of morals/ethics, not you.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Fuck this cowardly shit. The alt-right’s ability to take control and unleash this harm is damn near entirely the fault of good people who have decided to look out for their own safety and security at the cost of the US’s future. Tends of thousands of people in your position, choosing to roll over and taking the paycheck is all it takes to give them permission to overreach.

Burn that client to the ground.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I encourage you to read on the history and structure of resistance movements: what succeeded, what happened to make them eventually dissolve or fall apart. Requiring everyone to be max extreme, to give up their jobs and put their families at risk is not going to build a movement. Plenty out there, here are easy-to-find starters:

Black against Empire: The History and Politics of the Black Panther Party by Joshua Bloom

Why Civil Resistance Works: The Strategic Logic of Nonviolent Conflict Columbia Studies in Terrorism and Irregular Warfare by Erica Chenoworth and Maria Stephen

Activism, Inc. : How the Outsourcing of Grassroots Campaigns Is Strangling Progressive Politics in America by Dana R. Fisher

Beautiful Trouble: A Toolbox for Revolution by Andrew Boyd

The Lady and the Peacock: The Life of Aung San Suu Kyi by Peter Popham