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[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Not really true? I'm not entirely certain the Kinsey scale is advanced enough to quantify this, but I think liking slim femme twinks is closer to straight than liking big husky bears.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago (2 children)

What about guys who like rough muscular girls with strapons?

At some point, you should embrace the blur. It's all one massive ball of wibly wobly sexy wexy.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

Yeah, they'd be considered like a 2-3 or so on the Kinsey scale; mostly heterosexual but with some gay attraction. You know you can measure a spectrum right? It doesn't have to be a vague ball of nonsense.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

That example is at the beginning of an uncountable set of numbers to the straight side of the spectrum.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

But on the other hand, if a femboy twink is attracted to femboy twinks, wouldn't he be more gay than a femboy twink attracted to bears? Because the former is attracted to people more similar to himself?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's not about similarity, the Kinsey scale just measures your level of attraction to people of the same or opposite sex.

This starts getting more into "what parts of the opposite sex are you attracted to, and how is the other person presenting themself." Femboys present femme, so a femboy liking other femboys might be attracted to their feminine characteristics. If that's the case, they're likely to score closer to strictly heterosexual than a femboy who is attracted to the masc characteristics of a bear. On the other hand, maybe the femboy just really likes the idea of getting railed by another femboy. Then, they might even be more strictly homosexual than the femboy who's attracted to bears, but refuses to be the receptive partner to them and always tops.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I'm gonna need 3Blue1Brown to explain this to me...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Ah, but is it gayer to be a big husky bear who likes big husky bears, or to be a slim femme twink who likes big husky bears?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

so you're saying that big bara men powerfucking each other is the gayest thing in existence?

i'm down.