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[Migrated, see pinned post] Casual Conversation

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One thing that I hate about social media is hate towards blank profiles. (lemmy.world)
submitted 1 year ago by weeeeum@lemmy.world to c/casualconversation@lemm.ee
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Firstly, I understand why, most blank profiles are bots, but it's so frustrating trying to dm people, and interact in communities when you are mostly a lurker. Now I'm not a lurker here, but on other places it's very annoying when you just want to talk to a specific person. Reddit is especially dreadful for new accounts or lurkers. Karma requirement's are such bullshit.

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[–] UnhingedFridge@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Honestly, last time I used DMs was to give someone support during their finals since they were debating streaming during the time or not, and letting them know that their future and mental health are more important was well received.

I think the issue is that most well adjusted men see that there's almost never a reason to DM a stranger since you can just reply where anyone can see it, and the depraved see it as a chance to unleash their inner ape behind a safety shield - so friendly folk do the friendly thing and simply don't use the function until there's a solid reason, and that almost never happens.

Anonymity and social things really don't mix well when we have so many abusive and self-centered people who see it as an opportunity to ape out.