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I think to survive on Lemmy (all social media tbh) you need two things.
One is the ability to disengage when it's no longer fulfilling. I see reports from people saying they are being harassed by someone in a thread and I can't help but wonder why they didn't stop replying to the bad faith comment about 17 replies earlier.
The second is that you should block what you don't want to see. Block communities where you know you'll never be interested. Block users who reply in bad faith. Block instances where you see bad faith commenters a lot.
Do these two things, and comment a lot, and I think you end up with a much better experience.
Funny enough, I made a post in another community specifically about blocking. On the one hand I agree with you as for the curated experience, on the other hand echo chambers are unhealthy.
Its a very difficult balance to strike. Thus far I have only blocked communities which have zero bearing in my life - languages I don't speak, kinks I simply don't share, etc. However, blocking individuals is something I frankly hesitate to do because even the literal worst POV out there is useful; its good to know where the extremes lie and to be prepared for that level of madness.
At least, that's my opinion. And thankfully I find so far that even the most absurd hot take that I disagree with wildly on this site is still more palatable to me than half the crap that was out there on reddit before I left. And even those with snark are often kinder about it than reddit, I find.
In fact, I seem to be the barely-palatable-hot-take here as often as not, but given upvotes are entirely meaningless in all ways and especially to my actual daily life I generally am not bothered by it.
My suggestion is to block bad faith participants. There are lots of conversations I have with people who disagree with me and probably can't be convinced otherwise, but they are still enjoyable conversations if they are had in good faith.
To be honest I don't block that many users, I am able to spot bad faith participants and not reply to them, and if they reply to me I don't reply back. But if people are having trouble with the argumentative minority of Lemmy, I think blocking them is important. There's no point being here if you're not enjoying it.
Well said, friend. Cheers, and stay chill.