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[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

NGL, I've met 3 people in my life that are/were drag queens. All 3 have tried to get in my pants even though I'm not gay. HOWEVER COMMA, that was just 3 people in that community. That doesn't define the whole demographic. A person that didn't grow beyond their narrow upbringing probably wouldn't have that kind of perspective. It creates fear and shame for who those people really are. Granted I also was not friends with those people. I didn't know them beyond their persona's and they didn't know me beyond barroom shenanigans. But digressing back to my point, if you grow up in a household where your true feelings of how you should live are suppressed, then that creates shame which puts people like this in this position. It's a way of thought that is quickly diminishing and people are beginning to be able to live how they want regardless of personal opinion. The people who scream against those acts and get caught participating should definitely be criticized, but criticized still with open arms because that's a victory for all parties.

But, I'm a white cis male, so my opinion should be taken with a grain of salt

[–] ShepherdPie@midwest.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why do use an example of 3 drag queens hitting on you as an example of them doing something bad? I've been hit on by other guys even though I'm straight, and I find it flattering more than anything. It's not like people know your sexual preferences by looking at you.

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

What I'm getting at is I understand how closed minded people would be upset about it

[–] ResoluteCatnap@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You said it yourself that you didn't know them beyond their personas and they didn't know you beyond the bar. Regardless this doesn't make them pedophiles

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

Wholeheartedly agree. That was my point

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not sure what that first point was about. Drag isn't as much of a life style as it is a recreation(at least within the context of the Queer community). When Drag Queens go to work, they aren't doing it in drag. Not sure where you met those three drag queens, but I would guess it was at a party and that you've met many, many more drag queens in your life.

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I was trying to express that I understood how and why people would be bothered by drag queens themselves. Very narrow minded perspective mind you, but I still understand it and found a way out of it. I m certain those 3 people didn't mean anything by it. Nor did I mean anything really by saying the number. That's just how. I don't let them represent the entire demographic, but I also understand the perspective of those people that have been acclimated to oppose it