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I have a good group of friends and a reasonable sized family. I can't wrap my head around these weddings with 100-300 guests. Am I a loser or are they inviting mostly tertiary characters.

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[–] sudoMakeUser@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

100 is pretty easy to get to. I have 60 people on one side of my family alone. But for an average person, let's do a count. You've got say 8 immediate family members, including their partners. Your partner does too. Your dad's side has 10 people you want to invite. That's only two families of 5, so that's a low estimate for a lot of people. Your mom's side has two families of 5 you want to invite. Now your partner has the same. Lets keep it small and invite only 10 of your friends, so 20 with their partners. Your partner wants 10 friends as well. You are now at 96 people.

That's your immediate families, 10 relatives from each side, and 10 friends for you and 10 friends for your partner only.