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How ‘real’ do you think influencer relationships are? Even when they have a kid, how real do you think it is?

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[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 11 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Here's my thing. Well, first, I don't really care about influencers because I don't do anything where I see them voluntarily. So my exposure is definitely not first hand. So, my opinion on this may be deemed useless.

But, here's my thing. Anyone claiming to be an influencer is by the nature of the beast full of shit. Just wanting to be an influencer means you're full of shit.

However, you can end up accidentally doing it, and that may or may not make you full of shit.

Which, in turn, means that their relationships are just as real as they are. If an individual is full of shit, then it's incredibly unlikely their relationships are built on a good foundation. This also makes me doubt their ability to parent in a way that's child centric, which means they're probably shit parents.

Being full of shit, btw, doesn't necessarily mean the person is lying to the world. It does mean they're probably lying to themselves.

Being cool works the same way too.