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I honestly didn't realize that beating children was still so popular.
As a parent of two very strong willed kids, I will say that spanking (distinct from beating) has to be at least on the table. It's not the go-to, but the fallback if all else fails, and it does represent my failure to reach them, but sometimes it's the only thing that gets them to understand how serious something is.
In contrast, their (ultra Christian) grandma would call me soft, she used to go straight to spanking without warning, she felt that you shouldn't threaten, just do, and they'd learn soon enough. I would much rather threaten a spanking than actually do it... And it works, at this point I haven't spanked either kid in a couple years, though I have threatened it maybe twice in the last year.
Yes, CPS? This person right here.
Spanking doesn't work, and it's actively bad for your kids
I cannot fathom wanting your kid to be worried that you might ever hurt them
Thank you, that resource is fantastic - so much stuff to read!
Sincerely, fuck you. As a person who experienced beating (and other physical and psychological abuse by multiple family members).
Even if you (in your subjective opinion) beat your child just the right amount, you will probably overstep the boundary at some point. My dad used to occasionally beat me, sometimes he had a reason (which I figured out from context or was told from someone else, I was never explained what I did wrong) and sometimes, I feel like he didn't. He once tried to suffocate me with the sofa cuishoning (the only reason I survived was because I tilted my head enough I was able to breathe), and I still don't know why he chose to do that.
I also had to come to school with a visible bruise around my eye (and was afraid the social services would be alerted, as at 13 I already knew that, as an Autistic, I wouldn't be treated well).
There was also some psychological abuse from my mother, which I won't write about here because this is turning into a disorganized rant (but I feel like she enjoyed my pain, while my dad didn't).
I don't think I learned anything from being abused, apart from being quiet and avoiding confrontation whenever possible.
Also, "bare ass" spanking (which I haven't experienced) is sexual abuse and no one could convince me otherwise.
YOU are normalizing even worse types of abuse, but somehow people are fine with it.
No, also spanking is child abuse (for all the people upvoting this shit).
Or you know, you could break the generational trauma. Just cuz you don't do it as much as me ma did doesn't make it right.
The classic: "At least I don't beat you with my belt, like my dad did."