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Most noteworthy for me is the fact that more Americans think that porn (52%) and homosexuality (39%) are wrong than spanking children (23%) and being ultra wealthy (18%).

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https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2026/03/19/what-do-americans-consider-immoral/

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[–] JamesBoeing737MAX@sopuli.xyz 10 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

Sincerely, fuck you. As a person who experienced beating (and other physical and psychological abuse by multiple family members).

Even if you (in your subjective opinion) beat your child just the right amount, you will probably overstep the boundary at some point. My dad used to occasionally beat me, sometimes he had a reason (which I figured out from context or was told from someone else, I was never explained what I did wrong) and sometimes, I feel like he didn't. He once tried to suffocate me with the sofa cuishoning (the only reason I survived was because I tilted my head enough I was able to breathe), and I still don't know why he chose to do that.

I also had to come to school with a visible bruise around my eye (and was afraid the social services would be alerted, as at 13 I already knew that, as an Autistic, I wouldn't be treated well).

There was also some psychological abuse from my mother, which I won't write about here because this is turning into a disorganized rant (but I feel like she enjoyed my pain, while my dad didn't).

I don't think I learned anything from being abused, apart from being quiet and avoiding confrontation whenever possible.

Also, "bare ass" spanking (which I haven't experienced) is sexual abuse and no one could convince me otherwise.

YOU are normalizing even worse types of abuse, but somehow people are fine with it.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

I think the big distinction is "spanking" versus "beating".

A light slap is something that has been used for longer than humans have existed up to about 40 years ago. Like, we see that in all mamalls that raise their young. You give them a small negative consequence that hurts a little but doesn't cause damage, no where near as much damage as if the behavior wasn't corrected

A human brain isn't developed until 25, some times a clear negative consequence needs to be on the table to break bad behavior that has a much worse negative consequences. Because the child doesn't have the critical thinking to understand how bad the potential negative from the action could be

Tell a 6 year old not to chase a ball into the street, and they keep doing it...

You spank them because it's better than getting hit by a fucking car , or having a creep snatch them up if they get away from the house quickly before you notice

That's 1000% different than beating a kid for whatever reason the parent used justified it.

Acting like any physical discipline is the same as whatever you experienced just isn't logical, and you attacking others like this instead of trying to learn the difference is a common result of past abuse.

Because even if you understand it was abuse, your brain was trained to submit to authority, so when you believe someone is wrong, you try to make them submit to your authority, instead of looking at it logical....

You're the perpetuating that attitude ironically enough. Which is people who were legitimately abused need to eventually see a professional to work it all out. Not saying that as a judgement, just saying that type of shit has lifelong effects.

Anyways, try to be more civil.