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I once got told off for being at a gay bar by an older lesbian couple. They said "our kind didn't belong there" after they saw me dancing with my (just-out-of-the-closet) male friend and I guess assumed we were straight π€·.
I understand they get annoyed when straight people just come to their parties because it is fun, because it is supposed to be a safe space and a space where you go to look for other gay people. At the same time, I wanted to be supportive of my friend and continue going to parties together.
Those people are just as pathetic as homophobes.
Similar, granted....however homophobes didn't go thru societal level hatred before finding a safe space
Yet! Thereβs still time to change that.
Heterophobes
Nah, fuck those old bigots.
Nobody gets a pass on that shit. And people likely to say that shit are likely to say it about other groups they don't belong to as well.