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The unsettling thing about everyone's family tree is there a lot more incest than anyone would be comfortable with in it. The various royal families of the world just wrote it down.
It's not incest when you get to the point where overlapping lines are mathematically impossible
yeah, it's about 28 generations ago, if we assume a generation to be about 25 years, where the number of ancestors you would need to have for a family tree without overlaps becomes more than the number of people alive on earth at the time. 2^28^ is roughly the number of people alive on earth in the year 1326, which is 28×25 years ago. that's the theoretical limit of how far back you can go without someone fucking their cousin of some degree, and it requires an exceptionally well-traveled family
In reality, usually it's staying inside of a small village of maybe a few hundred. Easily within 10 generations, the entire village is related.
Reminds me of when I played Fallout Shelter, I made a spreadsheet to keep track of all my vault dwellers' families.
With the population of a tiny town, it did not take very long at all for the whole vault to become one clan.
I kept one dude and like 5 women in the family room to populate the entire vault, then I would kick out people that didn't have the same last name and then eventually kicked out all the males so it was just a 200 dweller vault of sisters
That sounds like a proper vault.
At some point back, you are related to every human who was on earth.
Yeah, I can see that.
But seriously, how much "incest" does the average family tree really have? And I'm drawing the line at great-grandparents, anything less than that is unrelated imo.
Royals were doing multiple generations of first-degree incest, that's on a completely different level from normal people.
There's probably lots of first and second cousins who married in centuries past, though even most royals usually didn't do as much inbreeding as the extreme examples like the ancient Egyptians and Habsburgs. It became pretty common to look for spouses all over the continent, that's why so many of the european royal families are related in various ways; arguably that means that they were probably less inbred than the average villager in most cases.
Well the guy who got cut off in the screenshot has quite a bit
Like I said, royals aren't normal people. See the fabled family tree of the Ptolemaic dynasty:
But that only works if you have a family fortune to protect. Normal people would rather spread their children around and increase their chances of survival.
Holy shit!
So for example: Cleopatra II was first married to Ptolemy VI, her brother, and had a daughter Cleopatra III. Then when Ptolemy VI died Cleopatra II was married to Ptolemy VIII, her other brother. Ptolemy VIII also took his niece Cleopatra III as his second wife.
Honestly, a family history of inbreeding doesn't mean much for the individual so long as it's not directly involved in their own birth. The issue with inbreeding is that every family has a few rare recessive conditions that simply don't manifest because they're rare enough to never be shared with the other families that they're having kids with, but if 2 people from the same family have a kid, that kid is way more likely to end up with 2 broken copies of the gene and have the familial condition.
However, even if your own parent has both broken copies, they can only pass 1 to you, and if your other parent is from another family, they likely won't have the same condition, so they'll pass you a working copy guaranteed and you're good. It's certainly not ideal, because it does concentrate the broken genes over time in a family if inbreeding continues, but a family history of inbreeding isn't really much of a red flag health-wise if your own parents aren't related.
In pre-colonial Australia, population numbers were so low, a lot of groups had to invent marriage laws to preserve genetic diversity. There are various "skin grouping systems" (it's nothing to do with the colour of your skin) that say who you can marry, and the systems are designed to minimise cousin fucking and make you go travel to find a spouse so your clan will have plenty of fresh new genes and take good care of the old ones.
First Australians had a better understanding of genetics than European royals thousands of years ago.