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This question was inspired by a meme I just saw, and my longtime crush on Brad Pitt, who’s 45 years older than me.

Youngest: my age. Oldest: if it’s someone in as good shape as Brad Pitt, the sky’s the limit.

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[–] Quilotoa@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My dad is 98 and he started dating an 82-year-old. It seems to be going really well. She can't drive and he still does so that probably increased his appeal.

[–] NeatNit@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Is he still mentally fit to drive at 98? Damn that's impressive. You've got some good genes.

[–] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

of course not. doesnt stop old people though

[–] NeatNit@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Generalizations like this are useless. Obviously there are exceptions. There certainly are people who retain a sharp mind into old age and even past age 100. It's not that uncommon. If he also kept his body in good shape, it's easy to believe he can still drive as well as anyone half his age.

[–] Quilotoa@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Yeah. I've started taking care of myself know that this body might have to do me for a long time. He's also still doing woodworking. Makes amazing stuff.

[–] toynbee@piefed.social 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Recently I had an operation and was in a semiprivate recovery room with a man who turned out to be 77. I'm 38. While chatting with each other to pass the time, I was on some pretty heavy painkillers. (He refused any pain remediation stronger than Tylenol. He was a veteran and, I suspect based on his reaction to any offerings, had seen friends succumb to addictions.)

Anyway, despite being drugged, I managed not to say the first two things that came to mind:

  • "Wow, you're almost exactly double my age!"
  • "Whoa, that's how old my dad was when he died."

All that to lead up to ... If you have any pictures to share, I'd love to see the creative works of a 98-year-old!

[–] Quilotoa@lemmy.ca 3 points 13 hours ago (2 children)
[–] toynbee@piefed.social 2 points 11 hours ago

Those are wonderful! Thank you for sharing.

[–] Quilotoa@lemmy.ca 2 points 13 hours ago

Top is 1/4 inch ash. He used a scroll saw for the little cutouts. Second is shapes cut out, painted, then glued onto a backing.

[–] NeatNit@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 day ago

That's awesome.