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The game has just been nominated for two Gayming Magazine Awards due to its (optional) gay romance.

"TRIGGER WARNING," the post begins. "Among all the various awards and nominations we’ve received, we’ve also just been nominated for the @gaymingmag GAYMING AWARDS! I’m really proud of that, because I absolutely stand by the fact that the way we did it is exactly how something like this should be done. Non-coercively, naturally, and educationally (because we show how things really were in the Middle Ages without idealizing them)--and without shoving it down anyone’s throat or trying to re-educate them like so many titles that are rightfully called 'woke' these days. We made the gay community happy and gave them the CHOICE to be themselves, just like we did for others in other choices and quests, and anyone who isn’t interested probably didn’t even notice. Except, of course, for [a] very small and very loud minority."

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[–] ChristerMLB@piefed.social 59 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (7 children)

In a lot of places, not just far-right assholes, the word "woke" has taken on the role of terms like "social justice warrior" and "political correctness" - i.e. in describing a self-righteous, superficial, performative and preachy kind of style.

Yes, that is not what the word "originally" meant, yes it is partially the result of right wing propaganda, yes "political correctness" and "sjw" have similar issues, but it is still a real thing.

What the man seems to me to be trying to say is that their goal was to do a medieval gay romance in a way that was not preachy or superficial – is that not good? Isn't there a bit too much token representation and pinkwashing going on?

[–] EldritchFeminity@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, that is not what the word "originally" meant, yes it is ~~partially~~ completely the result of right wing propaganda, yes "political correctness" and "sjw" have similar issues

Fixed it for you.

It is a common conservative tactic, taking the language of something meant to improve the lives of minorities in some way and turning it into a negative thing. As you said, they did it with "politically correct" in the 90s, "social justice warrior" in the late 2000s, "woke" in the 2010s, and are currently working on "DEI." It's how they control the narrative and normalize their hatred. And it's why Tim Walz calling them "weird" was so effective and why they got so upset by it - and why I'll never forgive the Democrats for muzzling him when we finally had a weapon to fight back against this insidious colonialism of language.

The fact that you believe that there's a middle ground where the definition isn't an attack on minorities means that they've succeeded in shifting the Overton Window and you've become used to the hatred yourself. Every single one of those terms that you mentioned was redefined for the sole purpose of being used to attack anybody who dared to openly talk about being a minority or exist as a minority.

The "woke" are as real as the "blue haired girls with pronouns SJW getting off the 'Down With CIS' bus and assaulting people" of 15 years ago, and the token representation that you're talking about is what's known as "rainbow capitalism," not "woke."

"Self-righteous, superficial, performative, and preachy" are the exact words used to describe a gay man daring to exist in public or talk about being gay in any way and not hide away like Section 28 and Don't Ask, Don't Tell are still in effect. That's what "woke" means when used under the new definition: a minority dared to openly behave like a minority in public and not be ashamed of it.

[–] ChristerMLB@piefed.social 1 points 58 minutes ago* (last edited 48 minutes ago)

Given the state of the world, and the anti-elitist sentiment going around, the fact that there aren't genuinely leftist parties getting 70+ percent of the vote in a lot of countries, is quite amazing.

Part of the reason for that, is the academization of the left. One of the problems that has brought with it, is a nitpicky focus on the correct use of language.

If we are to succeed, the vast majority of leftist will necessarily have to be people without the right university degrees, or who do not hang out in the kinds of circles where they get socialized into acceptable language.

Going all fire and brimstone because someone uses a bad word, often quite innocently, is an effective way to come off as self-righteous and preachy. Acting like that is the most important part of politics, is a good way to come off as superficial.

There's a reason why conservative strategists grab on to this and amplify it – because they know that this kills the left. The left does not work if it is not broad and populist.

I'm not saying we shouldn't all try to be considerate or strategic with how we use language - but save the fire and brimstone for the elites and the material issues.

The fact that you believe that there's a middle ground where the definition isn't an attack on minorities

What I believe is that this is what the word means to a lot of people. We might want to change that, but not like this - and quite frankly, we have much bigger issues to deal with

[–] alakey@piefed.social 6 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

If he was trying to say that, he would've said that. "I think the reason why our game succeeded in portraying a gay relationship in medieval times, when it was definitely not as widely accepted as it is today, was because we took that fact into account and developed the story around it, so it made sense while still representing a group that existed throughout all history." != "We still pander to the gays for free sales but not like those woke guys."

[–] ChristerMLB@piefed.social 1 points 51 minutes ago

it does involve some judgement against said preachiness, I guess I see that

[–] mellowistheyellow@lemmy.zip 16 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

Its not good, because you are now playing into the toxic norms that already exist. So its ok if straight stuff is upfront, but gay stuff has to be optional? This is completely pathetic and I will never support this, this team or game.

Dude is doing so much mental gymnastics to make himself sound superior. Again, it is really pathetic.

[–] ChristerMLB@piefed.social -4 points 16 hours ago

because you are now playing into the toxic norms that already exist'

how? I don't get it.

[–] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 12 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

In a lot of places, not just far-right assholes, the word "woke" has taken on the role of terms like "social justice warrior" and "political correctness" - i.e. in describing a self-righteous, superficial, performative and preachy kind of style.

LOL no, "woke" is anything that acknowledges LGBT+ individuals exist and have a right to live their lives as they want is woke. These fucking snowflakes cry about being asked to pick fucking pronouns, even when there is 0 impact on the game.

Crying 'woke' instantly tells me all I need to know about someone. The same goes for people who try to pretend it's about preaching a message instead of acknowledging these people can and do exist.

What the man seems to me to be trying to say is that their goal was to do a medieval gay romance in a way that was not preachy or superficial – is that not good? Isn't there a bit too much token representation and pinkwashing going on?

And you're parroting the message loud and clear. Acknowledging their existence is always tOkEn RePrEsEnTaTiOn

[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 16 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

So what should be the word we use for “media that depicts positive social ideologies?” Apparently “woke” includes the definition “while being super preachy about it.”

Of course, in that split, it’s also common people will call something “preachy” when a gay guy is there, and doesn’t even waste the viewer’s time. It happened to that horrible conservative animated show, as well.

[–] ChristerMLB@piefed.social -2 points 18 hours ago

So what should be the word we use for “media that depicts positive social ideologies?” Apparently “woke” includes the definition “while being super preachy about it.”

For a lot of people it does, yeah. I don't know if the best solution is to run away from the word, though – like you say, it's good to have a word for this stuff, and a different word is just as susceptible to being tainted by conservative strategists.

[–] MagnificentSteiner@lemmy.zip 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Now now, don't be getting all reasonable. This is the internet after all!

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world -1 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

Thank you. I’m a lefty myself, but leftists have such a hard time seeing that criticism of their own side actually has validity. I totally understand what this developer is saying about depicting a progressive topic without being “woke” (preachy) about it. I see the same thing in movies/shows that depict female heroes—there are some that just make the hero a woman, and then there are others that pump the “girl power” angle, overplay the female lead, make it explicitly clear she’s better than all the male characters, bloat the script with feminist jargon, blah, blah, blah. It’s stupid. You want to do the progressive thing? Fine. Just do that. Don’t brow-beat your audience with a political message about it.

[–] ChristerMLB@piefed.social 4 points 16 hours ago

yep, it's great to have a progressive message, but a progressive message is not an easy-button - you still have to do the hard work of making good art