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Some helpful links:

The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
Rainbow Railroad // A non-profit international humans rights organization helping at risk LGBTQ+ people relocate to safety.

Support Hotlines:

The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.

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should i leave my fucking country(russia) as soon as i end school? (quokk.au)

submitted 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) by erin@quokk.au to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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eg go to university in Vienna(or smaller city's such as Graz), austria is not bad, i have relatives in austria(which doesnt care about me, so not), have isnt expensive programs as im know ........ and its possible on english

maybe somewhere other place, are you know where to get into university and it isnt expensive?

how easy to continue hrt in austria through their healthcare? if not, DIYing injections is still possible

i hate my fucking awful govrenment, im scared ..... what next?

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[–] erin@quokk.au 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (3 children)

asylum? and live in shelter with awful ppl together? one russian trans teen died in nederlands asylum? one trans women suffering from shit in france

better to apply university

baltic countries are very rusophobic so also not

[–] MapleFawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Asylum means that you get refugee status, you do not have to be in a refugee home. It would however prevent the authorities from sending you back at any point. Because you are protected.

I am just trying to help you..

[–] erin@quokk.au 1 points 6 days ago

aaaaaaaaaaa ook ok cool

[–] MrNobody@quokk.au 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

How many Russian trans teens die in Russia?

[–] erin@quokk.au 1 points 6 days ago

yea i think many teens suicide because of transphobic parents and no protection by govrenment but we are never will know how many because information cencored

im was close to suicide when mom was ultra transphobic in 2024, ummm close? not just tried to make it better if not then suicide but hopefully i did it better

[–] Hazel@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The Netherlands is pretty bad regarding deportations, but that's not the case for all EU memberstates.

University would be preferable if possible but it doesn't automatically mean you get to live in the EU afterward. You'd probably have to find a (good) job and get married afterward 😔 Probably best to apply for asylum and attend university at the same time maybe, it'll give you options, but there's NGOs that would know better probably 😊

[–] erin@quokk.au 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

married? AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA so true so cool

im forget that marrying it isnt like in russia

i need to found someone

................. end im dont see future in russia, i would go somewhere in western EU w-where i dont need to fuck to get working internet, where i dont should scared going to doctor and what if see my female anotomy, where i can truly express myself and even marry, and even adopt a child (honestly dont want much child.......), where law protect me and not in russia where law protect lgbt discrimination, where, where, where, where it safe

someone DM me

[–] erin@quokk.au 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

one of problems - i dont want to lose my cats ((((((

[–] Hazel@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 days ago

:(((((

Lots of love and best of luck ❤️