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I’m basically living with this guy now. I keep saying “guy” because it feels too soon to call him my boyfriend or say we’re actually dating. It’s still kind of a getting-to-know-each-other thing, but we’re also fucking and pretty much living like a couple lol.

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[–] violet08@lemmy.today 2 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Yeah, it’s very fast, I know. But it’s something I’ve always wanted to do and couldn’t in my past relationship (2024-2026). We were living in the Gulf, and my ex was living with his family, so that came with a lot of restrictions (Muslim background, family expectations, etc.).

This guy actually wants me here, and I’m in a position where I can do it, I don’t have a job right now, online school is more of a formality like I mentioned before, and my parents support me financially. So I’m not really tied down by anything, and I just took the opportunity, lol.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 6 points 6 hours ago

Yeah that doesn't make it less bad of an idea, actually probably worse of one.

Have fun. Don't get killed. Bail when it starts going south. Learn from the experience

-an experienced older slut

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 1 points 10 hours ago

That's a fling, then. It could develop into something different, but that's all it is at the moment.