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Yeah exactly! Everything you said. It's definitely curiosity that's key. Just being curious about the people around you. Every single person you pass will see the world through a different window, than you ever can, and the only way to see through their window is to ask them, their view is formed by how they, specifically grew up, and the places they've seen, and knowledge they've absorbed.
Personally, I pretend I don't know as much about something, because other people's interpretation can give you a better perspective on something, you already know. Probably pretend is too strong a word, I more ask questions from their perspective before saying my perspective. Because if you just make bold statements, people are mostly too polite to correct you. And I find, sometimes people help me add to my knowledge, or help me see I've picked something up wrong, if I phrase things in questions rather than statements.
Now that I'm older, all that conversation serves me well, because I always have an anecdote about nearly anything, even if it's not mine. I don't take credit, I always say, I once met a guy who...
Not long ago, someone was amazed that I actually had something to contribute to some obscure subject, and somebody else said, "Oh, yeah, that's Barney. He's got a story for everything."