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I experience Lemmy as a reflection of many of the problems in the world; there seems to be little effort to understand and respect different viewpoints. Instead of being curious about opinions one disagrees with, the community often feels almost aggressive. People end up in their own trenches. What about trying to be more open and curious about our differences instead?

Apparently we believe in freedom of speech—so long as the speech is something we agree with....

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[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world -4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh no.... People disagree with my opinion. I'm being oppressed.

[–] bsit@sopuli.xyz 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thanks for proving my point I guess.

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yes. If your point is that you want to have an opinion and not be teased or disagreed with, that is not a thing you can have. At least, I can't imagine how that'd work.

[–] bsit@sopuli.xyz 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There's a world of difference between disagreeing with someone and mocking them. Especially if the mockery is based on a complete misrepresentation of what is being said.

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sure. And boy do I wish humans didn't do that all the time. But they do. And so to expect otherwise seems silly to me.

Maybe I'm just more jaded than I should be.

[–] bsit@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Not saying if you should or should not be jaded but I would ask you: please, please don't give into the jadedness.

I do understand the impulse and I used to be that way myself. But it's something that eats at you more than it helps you. Online you can always step away from the strife and in the offline world you can find truly good and caring people who do listen to reason. I realize it might be easy for me to say but I really don't want to see any more people turn to hopelessness and cynicism. It only helps people who would add more misery to the world.

I'm not the best person to say this and it'll sound weird on this platform but I do mean it with all my heart. I hope you can find enough good in your life to protect it without despair.