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I guess it's a blessing in disguise because now it will be easier to detect people who are not worth dating
it's not. it means we all suffer because so many of us want to be in happy relationships but the toxic bullshit people believe is totally preventing that. My dates use to talk to me like a human being, now they lecture me because I'm a 'man'. They see me as guilty until prove otherwise, instead of just a fellow human being who they are trying to get to know.
and the other thing that baffles me is how petty and mean dating has become.
Just explain them their use of fallacies is wrong and communication is key and then, maybe, they will reconsider their position. If they don't then you dodged a bullet especially in the long term