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Brother, if you think this is a one-way thing, you are profoundly mistaken
sorry, do men dog pile on their friends girlfriends for not buying them nice enough gifts? or not giving him enough blowjobs?
I've never had another guy comment on my relationship with my girlfriend. and I've never commented on theirs. only thing I ever experience was some bitter virgin types guy telling me how good i have it that I have ever had sex or get female attention at all.
Please, do not go down this road. Are you really going to argue that our society does not put unrealistic expectations on women?
No, I'd argue that women who think that way are simple choosing to be miserable and making excuses for it. And that's their choice.
They also often blame men for their choice the make them unhappy, weirdly enough.
I don't date or interact with women who think that way, purposefully. I sure do meet plenty of them, who lecture me about how hard their lives are... and I just laugh at them because most of the time their life is 1000x easier than mine ever was.
And I'd argue you're going full speed down the incel slope, and that's your choice.
The incel slope does seem to have a lot more members lately, whether due to social media or guys bitter from failed relationships, bit I will note that there's an old adage that still often rings true
"Men will fight each other physically sometimes to the point of bloodshed, but women will tear each other down socially without mercy"