witchergeraltofrivia

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Is it possible for us with ADHD to date an avoidant? in c/adhd@lemmy.world
[–] witchergeraltofrivia@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks… This helps a lot Both side need to be aware, work on it and meet mid way for it to work, I am being mindful, it’s going to be hard to control instincts and impulses, but I think it would be a little easier if I see effort from her as well

Is it possible for us with ADHD to date an avoidant? in c/adhd@lemmy.world
[–] witchergeraltofrivia@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

That’s amazing Thanks for the insight

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Is it possible for us with ADHD to date an avoidant? (lemmy.world)
 

My natural instincts seem like all the things you need to avoid with an avoidant partner like overwhelming intensity of feelings, going all in, oversharing, excitement, showing raw feelings etc. I was wondering if it's even sustainable.

In case it's not a run while you can scenario, I would appreciate any advice for an early talking stage with an avoidant and later stages if it goes well

Thanks!!

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Please rate my build (lemmy.world)
 

Usecase

2k ultrawide gaming, programming with local servers running in background. all on linux. portable enough for air travel. Should last 4-5 years before part upgrades.

Parts

Type Item Price
CPU AMD Ryzen 7 7800X3D 4.2 GHz 8-Core Processor $393.57
CPU Cooler Deepcool Assassin 4S 61.25 CFM CPU Cooler $75.00
Motherboard MSI MPG B650I EDGE WIFI Mini ITX AM5 Motherboard $255.39
Memory G.Skill Flare X5 32 GB (2 x 16 GB) DDR5-6000 CL30 Memory $104.99
Storage Western Digital Black SN850X 2 TB M.2-2280 PCIe 4.0 X4 NVME Solid State Drive $149.99
Video Card Gigabyte GAMING OC Radeon RX 7900 GRE 16 GB Video Card $539.99
Case Deepcool CH160 Mini ITX Desktop Case $50.00
Power Supply Corsair SF850L 850 W 80+ Gold Certified Fully Modular SFX Power Supply $149.99
Case Fan ARCTIC P12 PST 56.3 CFM 120 mm Fans 5-Pack $32.79
Total $1751.71

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Thank you!

Hyperfixated on building a desktop, it's probably going to put me back ~2k EUR. in c/adhd@lemmy.world
[–] witchergeraltofrivia@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Luckily, I got really exhausted and frustated, so hopefully it ended for now.
I'll do mostly browsing, programming, some servers always running in the background like jellyfin.
Then I'll be playing single player games on 2k ultrawide. Thinking all AMD for now, I'll consider nvidia for path tracing for the next upgrade, but don't need ray tracing for now.
Would like to reasonably futureproof it.

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Hyperfixated on building a desktop, it's probably going to put me back ~2k EUR. (lemmy.world)
 

I have been wanting to build a desktop for a while now, but I held back because I plan to move overseas in near future, and build it there, which I know is the right thing to do.

But I have spent ~24 hours in last 3 days researching specs and right build for me. I "need" to know :p. If I act on it, I'll have to sell the new monitor, tower case, power supply (the bulky items) just after few months of use, once I move overseas, only taking remaining parts with me.

This sudden hyperfixation is crazy. Have slept just 3 hours today (when my body just gave up and shut down). Just thought I'll share.