Don't know which model is behind T2I, but some models just do not support negative prompting at all...
The solution is, to simply not use them, but to focus, what to show - instead of focusing on what not to show.
I tried a girl face with a simple prompt, and could generate any number of girl faces without one earring in sight:

Just try it as a positive description... it works (at least most of the time ;-) )
Yes... I tried some self hosted models (=> ComfyUI), but I miss a secret sauce. The results are far below perchance.org T2I results regarding... well... the "overall feeling". Most of them are plain and simple bad at quality, composition and consistency. Z-Image-Turbo was the only model which performed good (to a certain extent), but the training material seems to have been heavily filtered for "all good looking and shiny things and especially people". It's quite incapable of generating some more down-to-earth or slightly ugly stuff. perchance.org seems less biased here, which results in a wider variety of "person types" you could achieve. If the devs would disclose, what they exactly do, to modify or enhance a model - that would be quite interesting.