I got so tired of it, I switched away. I installed SillyTavern, and set up an account with OpenRouter. In three weeks of pretty heavy use, I have spent less than $5.00 on chat AI. DeepSeek V4 Flash is very cheap, has a 1M token context allowance, seems to have zero NSFW filter, and goes about 3x faster than the perchance AI character chat. If you're ready to graduate, and can afford to spend a few bucks, and have a machine to run it on, you might give it a try. There are free models on OpenRouter too, though I have not tried them for quality.
If you don't know how to do it (and it can be intimidating) just ask ChatGPT or Claude for help setting it up and running it. I am about 600 responses into a roleplay right now which has been very good, with only a few "dumb AI" moments. And I'm pretty sure if I wanted to spend more, I could use a better model and get even better results.
I have used ST in two ways... at first, I was doing exactly what perchance does, one character, one user, chat. Then, I wanted a more RPG type experience, so I have developed a prompt that makes the AI be a game master, and that makes having third parties and world events more doable. Then, the main character(s) that the GM will play end up as lorebooks, and the 'setting' goes in the GM's scenario box.
It still seems to need an occasional kick to keep from "going with the flow" too much, but as I said, 600 responses in, and I'm still pretty happy with the story. It's a reverse Isekai slow-burn gay romance tale where an elf appears in Central Park, and my character befriends and protects him.
I am batting for the other team, but as others have said, mentioning or describing the organs in question helps. I want guys, so I always have something like "girl, woman, boobs, tits, vagina, pussy, femme, female" in the negative prompt. it's not foolproof (and honestly, I can put in "naked blonde man reclines on bed" and if I use one of the NSFW anime filters, he'll be about 75% likely to be lacking a penis or testicles. I have a big prompt I was using today before the thing broke, and even with a lot of explicit 'maleness' in it, I came up with a very attractive green-haired girl with c-cups and a bikini earlier....