@Jojowski @ICastFist oh, I should have mentioned. There's studies showing that autistic "social difficulties" disappear when we're with other autistics.
So we get the closest feeling to "normal" when we're hanging out only with other autistics, likewise if they want the closest feeling to being one of us they should attend an event in which they're the only allistic.
@SCmSTR that's why I said primarily, but I recognize that was a subtle distinction and not very clear.
I don't think any medication is going to really make us have an allistic experience, we can sometimes use medication for some comorbidities, but the things that make us autistic are too fundamental.
I realized in reply to someone else that I could have pointed out that we do have one occasion where we have something resembling an allistic experience, and that's when we're associating with other autistics.
They've done studies and our "social difficulties" disappear when we're only interacting with other autistics.
It's because our social issues are outside expectations and not a problem with us, we operating in an autistic manner. But because the world treats allistic norms as the only right way, we're forced to accommodate them and they refuse to accommodate us... so we get difficulties. When we're interacting with other autistics we're basically using the same protocol, so everything is fine.
It's still not entirely an identical experience, but it's the closest we've got. We still have fundamental differences in our entire sense of selves (the recent Identity Theory of Autism highlights how we structure our identities in a completely different way from allistics, it's why we typically don't understand "school spirit" or "peer pressure")