Well, if you're that sensitive, then fine. In fact, it's just a classic fear of public speaking. If you're uncomfortable expressing your opinion in front of a wide audience, why are you doing it? Not everyone likes you in the audience, yes, that's right. There is no tragedy in this. And this is not a reason to ban everyone. Just don't speak out publicly, gather an interest group and discuss some topics there. There are worse things in the world than voting against.
P.S. and you don't have to stress so much that this is not a criticism of me. because it doesn't matter. gather your will and just say what you want and let people do what they want with it. That's how it works. There is a moderators for everything else.
UPD: I'm Russian in general, and I can catch downvotes just for breathing. not very often, but still. Well, that's life.
I think 1 modifications fix this: User migration via Lemmy federation. When you can migrate from Instance to instance with old profile (comments, posts and all another) what instance you choice right now don't importand.