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That's perfection! 💖

Yeah and seem to mess with blood pressure way too much.

Hmm another mention of poppers, but they still scare me a bit. 😅

Literally me.

It sounds like your sexuality is expanded overall (like multi-dimensionally)

That's such an interesting way to say it, haven't thought of it that way before. Now you got me thinking. 😅

I always practice it either by edging without release or by doing anal play, but I haven't caged myself long term yet.

The effects for me are:

• being on the verge of arousal all of the time, which is such a fun feeling
• being a lot more in touch with my kinks and sexuality, without any shame
• a significant reducing of overthinking
• a lot more leaking, which I find really arousing
• sexual fantasies are longer and more detailed
• I appreciate my whole body a lot more, I can just touch everywhere forever

What’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm?

For me it was 30 days.

If done intentionally, what were you hoping to achieve?

The first time I did, it was just to see how I'd feel. Since then it has become a normal part of my sexuality. What I'm hoping to achieve every time now are the effects I listed above.

Why did you end the orgasm denial streak?

Sometimes it's by accident, but I've gotten better at this. My discipline is definitely a lot better now. When it's not by accident I just felt like I've pushed myself enough and allow myself a release. Sometimes I set a specific amount of days as a minimum.

Did you do it solo or with a partner?

For me it's been solo.

Also, if you’re into this sort of thing

I definitely am as you can probably tell and I instantly subscribed, thanks for making it! We definitely need more proper communities for this topic. Also thank you for making this post!

Ah I see, well still nice, but yeah like you said it's not something that can be done often.

I agree.

I'll probably skip them for now, but thanks for sharing! I'm sure that most people who use poppers responsibly are fine, but I'm just not feeling too comfy with them.

Oh interesting, I'm sure such a come up would make the trip really nice afterwards.

I've been curious about them as well, but they kind of scare me. Also the short duration seems weird. I wonder if nitrous will have a similar effect.

Have you had any bad side effects from poppers?

I'm assuming the trip didn't involve a high dose, because my comedowns on higher doses were always weird.

Well Cannabis is definitely very different for everybody. Not only that but a single person can have different "phases" with it. I've had periods where I'm sure it wouldn't have worked for me as well. At some point I just felt it doing it for me, that's when I started using it more for sex.