lazyneet

🤤 I'll do my best 😖

I'm pretty 😈 for twinks as well. 🤤 Too bad so many are like 20 and (understandably) not into me.

I feel like I've gone vanilla following a recent breakup, so the closest thing to a kink I have is a fascination with twinks and maybe also femboys in their mid 40s. The latter one seems to be an acquired taste.

I understand bears in terms of there being a gene that makes people like facial hair. I'm not into so much masculinity so I can't personally relate.

As for icks, I have tried sounding and found it painful, which made me ask my partner to go harder to sort of push through to CNC territory, but she wasn't that hardcore. Now, honestly, I think cisgendered and 100% cis-passing women are among my icks. Not really into femininity unless I can see a dick.

That I do :3

I have noticed some threads of that nature. In this case though, I think these are very healthy discussions because they are often people's first sexual or romantic experiences, and it's nice to have solidarity.

Call me a devil's advocate, but I don't find the sharing of formative moments to be particularly harmful.

I was in the 6th grade. I was at another boy's house, one we always teased for seeming effeminate. (I'm a millennial and things were different back then.) He offered to wrestle me. He wore tight spandex briefs and his dick slipped a little as he put them on, and it looked huge (I didn't know what an erection was). It wasn't a big deal to me, but I was disappointed that his wrestling outfit was just underwear. Then he got on top of me on the bed, it felt sexual, and I asked him to stop, so he did.

He apologized, he felt really bad about it, even confessing to his mother un-prompted, and eventually my mother told me something like "you were a victim". I didn't even care about the incident, but there was a weird unspoken homophobic attitude between our families. A couple years later when I was dealing with real, unrelated issues, my parents found a way to incorporate gay-affirming rhetoric into their conversations with me, even though I was only mildly bisexual and a kissless virgin. I'm now very openly gay (partially as a way of deflecting coming out as trans), but it wasn't a consideration back then.

Thanks to you 😘

Fuck me I didn't know I'd get this kind of reaction. Is baby oil not a normal sexy time oil?

I've heard of people using baby oil. I've always wanted to get oiled up, but somehow I never have.

It fits. You'll fit too 😉

A little stressful ngl. hbu