lazyneet

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[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 4 points 7 months ago (2 children)

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[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It would help more if it were inside me ๐Ÿ˜–

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago

This was never an issue for me. I knew I was bi as early as high school, fucked a transfem in my early 20s, and now I am one. I recommend getting over your internalized homophobia, which I used to have. It can take effort to overcome psychological barriers, but it gets a lot easier after the first time. The only differences with a cis male are that his skin is slightly rougher, no breasts, and potentially a different personality. If you're ok with those differences, you may as well fuck a guy.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Are we getting a new sequel to The Thing?

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 6 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Back when I was figuring that stuff out and watching these kinds of things, I already identified as bi, but I still wasn't keen on the body types of most American male porn stars. For some people the humiliation fetish is about someone who looks big and powerful being reduced to a bottom. For me, it's about the bottom already being a submissive twink. Even though I don't really top, I sometimes imagine myself topping, and I have a type.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I worry about that too. I think if a webm file is the same size as or smaller than a high-res JPEG it shouldn't make a difference.

I did some tests several years ago, and I found that VP9 was roughly as efficient as h.264 and Opus was the top performing audio codec. (WebM specifies those two, maybe more since AV1 came out.) At 640x360 with I-frames every 4 seconds and moderate quality, you can get maybe 5-10 mins. of video and audio down to a couple MB. If the server imposes a strict limit on file sizes regardless of type, people will find ways to keep the size down, and the impetus is on the server because of people's constant drive to consume resources.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 5 points 7 months ago (3 children)

I'm not a fan, but from a technical standpoint I think embedding a non-mainstream external site like redgifs is worse. Lemmy supports direct uploads of some file types (possibly webm?) and there are systems like PeerTube for larger video hosting.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 20 points 7 months ago

A few months I was walking, possibly jaywalking, and someone shouted "BITCH!" out of their car window as they passed me. That was probably the only time I've ever passed for cis.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I came out in stages as my sexuality changed, starting in high school when I somewhat discreetly came out as bi, and now more openly as someone who has had a number of queer relationships. My mother asked me last week if I'm "still gay". Yeah, pretty sure I am. But some people are still preoccupied with stigmas that even my generation was raised with.

When did OP come out?

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago

The only thing I do is makeup. It's a skill that takes time to learn, so it accomplishes consumption of time, gender affirmation, and self-improvement.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 2 points 7 months ago

Aww thanks. Honestly I was just venting. I have a terrible habit of looking for problems in a relationship, and I dumped my bf because of perceived problems. I think anyone can make a relationship work, I'm just complaining about problems with sex.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

The only videos fitting the description that I know of feature Alia Janine and are quite old by now.

I'm starting to wonder if tits alone can make guys cum...

To answer that question, I recommend dating someone with big tits. It can be hard for some people to cum with a partner in general, but you learn to enjoy the experience regardless.

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