lazyneet

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[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 1 points 3 weeks ago

Absolutely gorgeous ๐Ÿ˜

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 4 points 4 weeks ago

True for bisexuals in general, but bisexual twinks are always welcome.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I'm sorry you've been feeling this way! You look super cute and super sad. If you aren't already, you could cosider dating a girl who could provide some affirmation and help with beauty and such. From that photo, everything seems physiologically perfect, but I do get a certain vibe that is consistent with the things you've said. If you want some advice from random people here, I have some pointers:

  • The emo/goth look does nothing to make you less depressed
  • Try dyeing your hair
  • Try wearing lighter colors
  • Smile! :)
[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 5 points 1 month ago

You look great! I hope fascist fashion isn't the new thing. I want to wear my electric blues, fishnet gloves, tights, and microskirts.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 12 points 1 month ago

A sense of adequacy as a person, but this is tied to a relationship as much as sex. Being able to make someone cum when they have had difficulty with other partners is a terribly wonderful feeling to have, especially when one can anticipate future visits and possibly a life with this person.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You look amazing! And you look quite dressed up by Oregon standards. Is that considered business-casual?

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 6 points 2 months ago

If they're attracted to me as nonbinary would be almost as validating as attraction to me as a woman. People who call themselves gay or straight seldom adhere completely to their orientations. Today I became friends with another transgirl, one far prettier than I am, and I would fill any gender role to be with someone like her, and I have compromised my gender by butching it up before, and it was a worthy sacrifice. My desire is greater than my self-respect.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

That's awesome! I "dated" a straight guy once, meaning I stopped by to give him a blowjob. I personally like the vibes of gay guys and would consider appealing to androsexuals as a fem a victory, as that would mean my appeal transcends appearance and gender.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 5 points 2 months ago

And don't forget, transgirl boners only come from true love

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 1 points 2 months ago

Thank you, you've given me a lot to think about.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

Good to know! I heard you do that at 40. A bit unrelated, but since we're talking ages, is there an ideal age for a double orchiectomy? You've presumably already had it done, but in the back of my mind there is a possibility of global collapse and I'll need strong bones to survive, even without medication. I was thinking of timing it with an early menopause to minimize the risk of harm in that scenario, but maybe earlier is better.

[โ€“] lazyneet@programming.dev 9 points 2 months ago (5 children)

PSA levels will decrease significantly to undetectable levels, and reported values need to be interpreted in this context

As someone on HRT with currently no plans for a vaginoplasty, I'm assuming this means the best way to tell if I have cancer is anal examination UwU

 

This thought has been bugging me for the past few months. Out of my ~15 partners, only 4 would I describe as "conventionally attractive," and all of those were decidedly fem (1 cis f, 2 tf, 1 sissy), and they were all bottoms. I (32tf) can't and don't want to top.

I consider myself pan and I say I like men, but in practice I only like soft and androgynous types. Fem tops are unicorns, and I seem to only be able to maintain relationships for ~6 months at most. My last relationship with a man was such a disaster that I'm tempted to swing the other way, except I don't want to be an ace side or whatever terms people use to justify what amount to platonic relationships. I'm also too busy to really care about anyone right now. How do other transfems navigate this kind of sexual/romantic difficulty?

 

At 31, I have had 6-10 sexual partners (depending on what counts), half guys, half girls. My female partners (including one transfem) were mostly interested in long-term relationships, as am I. My male partners were all hookups with no follow-up, much to my disappointment. As I am now actively looking for a boyfriend, are there any special considerations when courting men, as opposed to women, for this purpose?

 
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