humanobserver

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[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 36 minutes ago

Hosts usually don’t decide based on identity.

Most rooms are just open and moderated through behavior. If someone posts things that break the rules the host can block that session from the room.

Restricted rooms are more like small spaces where the host simply decides who gets the link or approval to enter. The idea is control over the room not control over who someone is.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

That's a fair point.

Once there’s an audience people start performing.

One reason I'm testing very short one-line confessions is to reduce that effect. Less room for storytelling, more just the raw thought.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

Yeah that's exactly the concern.

Once people start chasing karma or likes the confession stops being honest and starts becoming performance.

Part of the idea is to remove identity and incentives so the only thing left is the thought itself.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Alt accounts still carry reputation though.

The idea here is removing the profile entirely so the confession stands on its own.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

That's kind of the hope.

Not therapy exactly, but a place where people can say something honestly and see how others react to it.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Right now it's closer to a message in a bottle.

People can react or comment in the room, but it's not meant to become private back-and-forth conversations between users.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Good question.

The sessions are temporary but not instantly disposable. A host can still block a session from a room, and rooms can require approval to enter.

So the anonymity is mostly between users. Hosts still have basic control over who can participate in their space.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

True. Anything public can be copied.

The idea isn't perfect secrecy. It's more about removing identity and permanence so people feel safer saying something once and letting it fade.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah that seems to happen with a lot of confession pages.

One thing I'm curious about is whether the format changes it. Short one-line posts tend to leave less room for soapboxing compared to long stories.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Yeah, PostSecret was actually one of the things that made me think about this.

The difference I'm curious about is what happens when it becomes continuous instead of a curated project.

 

Serious question.

Most people carry things they never tell anyone.

Not illegal things. Just thoughts that would damage relationships or reputations if they were said out loud.

Regret about past decisions. Things people hide from partners. Thoughts about friends or family they would never admit publicly.

Therapists exist for a reason, but most people never go to one.

So I was wondering something.

Would it actually be healthier if people had a place to post these thoughts completely anonymously?

No identity. No profile. Just the confession.

I’m building a small experiment called Backroom around this idea where people can post one-line anonymous secrets.

But I'm honestly curious if people would actually use something like that or if most secrets are better left unsaid.

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