appauled

joined 4 weeks ago
[–] appauled@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago

God forbid I said sibling instead of offspring. Lord.

Idk why you're incredibly bitter, I get your kiddo manipulated other people into taking care of them, but that doesn't mean everyone else is your child and there's no exceptions.

Can we at least be on the same page and acknowledge not everyone who uses a label is the same exact person in the same exact situation?

[–] appauled@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago

Disagree, social or physical bullying is about the same effect, except the risk of physically hurting someone is exchanged with the social risk of pushing people towards depression, self-harm, and suicide.

[–] appauled@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Sounds like someone who's choosing to be lazy instead of someone who is unable to work. Not the same thing, ignorant to say everyone who uses that label is the same as your sibling

[–] appauled@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

Ahhh that makes sense! I think I'll just search for some of the other music alternatives mentioned in this thread

[–] appauled@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

early on, so you don’t have to convert all your services at once but can integrate them when you set them up.

For this part, i'm not sure what you mean by convert all my services? are you talking like a 2FA app or similar?

[–] appauled@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

Sweet, I'll throw it on a flash drive for the time being, then eventually also get it on my NAS after it's all set up

[–] appauled@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It's kinda fucked right now lol but it's an:

  • i5-9600k (6/12 thread)
  • 1070 GPU
  • 32gb ddr4
  • 16tb 3.5" hhd (I know I know I'll get another one later but they're like $350 😭😭😭)
[–] appauled@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

Lowkey I want to get a job as a devops engineer eventually (may make a new post asking for advice) but I was thinking of trying to set up my homelab using kubernetes. I know it's overkill but I need the project experience and want to learn it, so I was considering LocalHost (self hosted aws-like thingy I think) + terraform / kubernetes to config everything

[–] appauled@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

I have also never posted on lemmy!

  • that seems
  • like it's
  • a great
  • thing to
  • know!
[–] appauled@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I'll def get pihole! Meant to write it down but forgot. Caddy seems super helpful too

For backing up config files, would GitHub be fine? Ik microslop bought it (boooo! tomato!) but is there another foss alternative I should use instead?

 

this is my current plan, but I've yet to selfhost for longer than a month or two previously. what do y'all think of my choices?

Proxmox HV running TrueNAS+Debian Stable Server

Prowlarr: Indexer manager Sonarr: TV show management automation Radarr: Movie management automation LazyLibrarian: Book management automation Lidarr: Music management automation Homarr: Dashboard for managing applications Seerr: Media request management system Jellyfin: Media server qBittorrent: Torrent client NZBGet: Usenet downloader WireGuard: VPN software Surfshark: VPN service Portainer: Docker container management UI Watchtower: Automated Docker container updates Immich: Photo gallery & backup Mealie: Meal planner Moonlight: Low latency remote gaming (retro game emulator focused) Kavita: Ereader for books, manga, audiobooks, most formats Funkwhale: Music streaming

open to suggestions, but wanted to see if the community would perceive this as a reasonably interlocked software system or if i need to be using other software.

incredibly new and lowkey uninformed by trying my best to learn. plz be nice lol