Where do you meet them? Tinder is not the best place to meet the right women. I've had more luck with other apps like ok cupid. Also when I go to parties I meet nice women but only at the right parties with the right crowd. Standard clubs are not the right place imo. I prefer to go to subculture events / and underground parties.
Edit: I'm not saying it's easy, I find it super hard too.
I don't even understand how being against fascism can be considered a terrorist organization.