PubSubSwitch

For you? Anything 🤭

I couldn't really think of a username and was trying to combine sub and switch into one. It's a really dumb pun in that pub sub is a networking term and so are switches. Plus exhibition (pub) is fun.

Love the mix of boots and lingerie! 😻

Ahhh, I gotcha. I normally just use r/ before subreddits even if I'm off Reddit, especially since most of us are from there. I never did anything on Reddit like that. Only Twitter and Discord.

What is HentaiAndRoleplay?

But even then, I prefer forum/DMs for RP, not necessarily chat. Lemmy DMs aren't great for it though I'd imagine as it doesn't show the history of the conversation with someone.

Nah, I'm more interested in doing it with people. A big part of it is also the creativity and interaction.

I've seen deep couches like that for sale. It's not that odd. Also, I don't find it shocking that a porn studio would have deeper couches for more room to roll around on lol.

Despite being with my wife for nearly half my life, I've never had penetrative sex. It was originally because my wife has severe anxiety about things going inside her, but to be honest there's some hesitancy from me now as well. I've gotten very used to how we have sex and it doesn't involve penetration.

We have a partner now and I think it's something that they'd be open to, but I'm actually pretty nervous about the whole thing.

My desires were always fairly unconventional but the way my wife's and my sex life has developed has really reinforced that. My wife is essentially 100% top at this point. They have no real interest in reciprocation. They're on the ace spectrum so their enjoyment is different. Every once in a blue moon they'll ask for something but it generally doesn't end with them orgasming. All of that to say my main contribution to my sex life has just been becoming enjoyable to watch. I'm usually very vocal and squirmy. I whimper, beg, plead, cry, scream, etc. lol.

It was somewhat validating that one of the first times the three of us had sex together our new partner said they loved what I was doing and that it was definitely turning them on. I felt a lot of pressure to reciprocate for my wife for so long because I didn't want to be one of those lazy partners who doesn't do anything, but that's sort of what my wife wants out of it. Letting go of that was difficult for me. So actually hearing from someone else tell me that what I'm doing is actually enjoyable meant a lot. Not that I ever doubted my wife, but, you know how things are. Like when a stranger compliments your outfit as opposed to someone you know well.

So, that would be the "confession". I'd never describe myself as a virgin, but I've definitely never had traditional sex.

Honestly, me too a little.

Why do you care if an 18+ year old who looks youthful does NSFW stuff? Take an extreme example, what if Hasbulla did nudes? He is 21 but looks extremely young. I can't see how telling him he isn't allowed to make nude content because of his appearance is anything other than ableist and body shaming. You don't have to like the content or even like the people who would look at it to think the content is acceptable.

If everyone is a consenting adult then everything is fine.

The red dress is trying to Agent Smith the gold dress.

I still don't understand why my images don't show the same as everyone else's lmao. The direct link is here. https://lemmynsfw.com/pictrs/image/61baed2b-eb5b-48c4-abc6-00ae78e99b53.png

Ready for Barbie, OP?