this post was submitted on 10 Jan 2025
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ADHD

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[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 40 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Why don’t you just sleep earlier /s

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Hey now. I wasted my whole day doing pointless stupid shit, so I need those extra hours after midnight to do my pointless stupid shit.

[–] Szyler@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

I feel personally attacked. I just had a 2 hour nap because I did this yesterday.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 9 points 1 year ago

It’s either that or a sudden frantic focus on important tasks but it’s already 1am.

Or an urge to work on something meaningful but you had one singular drink and you can’t focus but have the motivation lol

[–] ctenidium@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

revenge bedtime procrastination

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 4 points 1 year ago

报复熬夜 every night

[–] pemptago@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Well, it can take 2-3 hours to brush and floss if I think, "I'll glance at my phone," in between.

[–] ech@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago

No diagnosis, but at least similar issues. Best metaphor I've come up with is that it's like trying to push two magnets together that are the wrong way around. Visually it looks simple as can be, but the invisible forces preventing it feel impossible to overcome.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But also "ooh, shiny" and proceeding to spend a few days obsessed with shiny new things.

[–] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

But just a few days, and not in a way to be able to capitalise upon it

[–] LouNeko@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The thing is, if we could do all the things that could fix our life, we could also do all the things that would make it worse. Better to not do anything it all.

[–] neatobuilds@lemmy.today 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Except some of those things that make it worse are fun so I'll just do a little bit of that this time

[–] LouNeko@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

How else are we supposed to endure...

[–] OpenStars@piefed.social 10 points 1 year ago

Oh come on it's too early for this reality shit, I want to laugh

[–] Pxtl@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

for everybody reading this who haven't tried them already:

The meds help a lot. Stop overthinking it and just get the meds.

[–] tdawg@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I mean. Get diagnosed first. It might be something else

[–] Pxtl@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is !ADHD@lemmy.world, I kind of figured people would join this sub after a diagnosis.

[–] tdawg@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

the internet is full of people who self diagnose

[–] hihi24522@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

It’s the start of the semester, and this is me. Unfortunately I’m feeling it even while on my meds :( I think I’ve become tolerant to them.